
Like a Rock


Dang it, Darren Hardy. Yes. I meant that. Every day (or most days) I listen to DarrenDaily, a daily motivational clip by Darren himself. It gets me motivated and sets a positive tone – and often lights a fire under my b###.
Yet, sometimes I find myself still missing the mark in my fitness business, in my missions work – shucks let’s be honest – sometimes in simple walking-around-day-to-day things. You know, it’s so cold; who can do anything in this weather (we just had a week of frigid temps)…or my house is a mess; I can’t do anything until I get it cleaned…or fill in the blank with your favorite excuse…
Guess what? Today, my friend and mentor (I’ve never met him, but I feel like I know him), Mr. Darren Hardy asked, “Why aren’t you better? Why aren’t you living your dream…hitting your goals. What keeps getting in the way?”
I sat eagerly waiting for his wisdom. Then he said, “You!” “You are the only one who can take 100% accountability for your life.” Then he said, “You’ve failed.”
What! How dare he!
Dang it. I kept listening. He said, “We’d like to blame some outside source for our failure, but cut the bull.”
Yes, he said it like that! I kept listening. “All you have in life is created by 1) what you should have done, 2) what you could have done but chose not to.” Then he said, in answer to the question, “But what if you’re hit by a bus, or there is a tsunami? Are you responsible for that?”
Uh huh. I waited with bated breath on this one. I mean, really. Tsunami. That’s a biggie. Then he said, “Of course not.”
Ah ha!
“But, you are responsible for how you react or respond to what happens to you.”
Dang it.
He said, “Take back your power. Take 100% responsibility for every condition in your life.”
This, he says, will separate us from everyone else. We will be the one who transforms problems into opportunities. No excuses. We can be free from self-imposed shackles of excuses that is keeping us from being all we were meant to be.
Challenge: Stop and take a moment and evaluate your life here in this New Year. What are the “situations” that seem to be keeping you from progressing? Determine right now what you will do about it. Remember, you (with God’s help of course) are the only one who can do you.
I’d love to here your thoughts on this. Feel free to comment here. I will respond.